These are a bit of a pain to take apart, especially the first time. On mine the pipe-side pulls out from the aluminum body. Leave the tail end on the body. The first time I had mine apart, I slipped a small, thin bladed screw driver in the joint between body and the steel flange and GENTLY pryed the aluminum away from the flat sides. Once that was done, I was able to lock it into a vise (not too hard!) and twist the pipe end back and forth and get it apart. As I recall it took quite a bit of wrestling. Yes, the edge of the silencer can was deformed a little by the time it was taken apart.
When you're ready to put everything back together, run a thin bead of high temp silicone (the red stuff) around the steel flange, push it back in the body and gently tap the aluminum back into shape before installing the bolts.
When you're done, you won't be able to tell it was ever apart if you take your time and don't stretch the aluminum too much.
Subsequent repacking jobs will be much easier.