All bikes will be different, jetting recommendations are only a base to get you started. If it works, use it!
Have you fiddled with the air screw? The setting of it will tell you whether the pilot is rich, lean, or right on the money.
As for "KX jetting", well, I don't know about that. If a larger KX250 carb was put on the bike you would have to go much richer on the jetting. Smaller engine pulls less vacuum through the big carb, which means less signal at the jets, which means larger jets must be used to get the same amount of fuel. For the same reason a bike will often end up with smaller jets with a big bore engine. If you went from a 35mm to a 38mm carb you would have jetting no where near where people recommend for your bike. I would bet the main would be at least a 165 to get it to run out on the top end.
My carb went from a 33mm to a 36mm. My main jet went from a 145 to a 158.