Hi. Dump out that 10 weight oil and put in 5 weight oil. At that point, they will work better for you, but you will need to realize that you have forks that have the valving setup for MX. Yes, it will be a little rough out in the woods. You CAN remove the midvalve without modifying the base valve valving. I would think that some sort of base valve valving change would help you to get it set up better for you. The correct rate springs will always help to maintain the proper ride height.
For simplicity's sake and to better know how each change affects the forks' perfromance, make one change at a time. For example, for right now, just change the oil weight (and if you want to get picky/accurate), keep it at the same oil height. This will let you learn how changing JUST the oil weight feels. After that, you could adjust oil height. Those are cheaper than getting the proper springs for your weight, but getting the proper rate springs IS very important. DO try to get some.
I hope this helps.
Also, that bike is not old. :-)