We are now on our third RM, (now the 85 of course). I definitely recommend tightening the steering stem so that the wheel will just barely turn freely side to side with the bike on the stand and the front wheel off the ground. We have had to do so on all our RM's for some strange reason. You should tighten until you achieve a slight resistance in the free movement of the wheel.
After having done so, then you might also experiment with the fork adjustments.
As for the RM vs. other 80cc bikes...the entire '02 crop seems to be one of the collective best. However, for us, we're just partial I guess.
Good luck