I know what you mean Justin, as I am in the same boat. My first helmet was an HJC and I really liked it (Kathi wears it now). I have since purchased an O'neal (two years ago) and my Arai (just before the spodefest). I dont need a helmet, but will probably go that route, as my gear bags dont last very long and arent waterproof. I am leaning strongly toward the HJC helmet. As to the Shoei being more comfortable than the Arai, it must truly be a personal thing. My Arai is awesome and the Shoei fits decent but with nowhere near the comfort (IMHO). As to your dilemna, just get something soon and retire that "skunk" helmet that you have now! Maybe blackjack can modify their sticker for your helmet by removing the tree so that it more resembles the majority of Kansas.