Im an experienced rider with very little experience in setting up my own suspensions. I'm 6'1" and weigh 230. I wish that my susepnsion was a little stiffer in the whoops in sand a little tougher on the landings. (I know lose weight and give the suspension a break) but without giving up my lavish lifestyle and Pork Rinds how should I try to stiffen the ride?:think