Alright guys, this is what I've found to be the key to the RM clutch.....
I tried replacing the basket, springs and using EBC plates, with no results. Well, one day on eBay I found a set of fibers for an RM for about $40. They were made by "Factory Concepts"(FC). I had them sitting around for a while before I tried them out. BUT, I've been running the FC fibers with used EBC steel driven for about 3 months and WOW! The clutch is so smooth that I can't believe I'm on an RM! It even engages enough to start the bike in gear and not have to worry about stalling when using the brake on jumps.
The difference between these plates and the EBC, stockers was the actual material. The FC plate material seemed really hard. It looks like the material on a brake pad. I'm sure that they are not Kevlar based and they are also not cork based....so I'm not sure what they're made out of, but it works!
Now, of course I can't find that brand anymore. I've been searching everywhere and I can't find them. I did find out that FC is best know for their T-shirts, so hopefully they haven't given up on making hard parts. If anyone knows where I can find them, let me know and try them yourself.