There's nothing wrong with you, corndog. You're normal. She's normal. You both are normal. Seems like a normal situation to me? :think:
At any rate, cutaneous heat loss or retention, sweating, piloerection, etc. are all controlled by the sympathetic and parasympathetic nervous systems. Remember those? When the sympathetic ('fight or flight') dominates, you've got cold, clammy skin (surface vasoconstriction), piloerection (hairs standing up/ or on end--eggagerated eg = cat's back hair standing up), and sweating (eg, nervous sweating). If the parasympathetic predominates, you've got warm, flushed, peripherally vasodilated skin (increased conductive loss), no sweating, no piloerection.
These 2 are always in 'tonal' argument, in the sense that the balance between the systems determines the final status.
Most men tend to have warm, flushed, peripherally vasodilated skin and 'feel' warm, as a result. Women tend to have a higher sympathetic tone than parasympathetic, feel cold, a bit sweaty (particularly palms), etc. This situation tends to hold true until extremes of hot or cold are tested.
One tidbit, is alcohol causes a chemical vasodilated state (flushed, warm to the touch). Under conditions of severe, chronically reduced temps, Etoh can accelerate death due to freezing, since there's increased conductive heat losses, and core temp drops as a result. ie, it's really easy to see how someone could be out riding a snowmobile, or whatever, get soused, fall asleep, and freeze to death. Happens.