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Message: [QUOTE="Jeff Gilbert, post: 647306, member: 20280"] FC, I don't know that there's anything you can or could do to "make things better", after all, that's what we're talking about. I lost my mother and my grandmother, ther difference was my mother had heart problems. Though it was common knowledge my mother was not going to live forever, when her time came fortunantly it was fast. My grandmother had pancreatic cancer, it was discovered during a routine checkup. The doctor suggested that she discontinue her blood thining medicine and pray for a heart attack and that was a very hard thing to accept. The only thing I can suggest is that you never stop being her you are, that'll enforce to your friend that he knows you and indeed has a friend. In the end the ones that are left here are the ones that have the harder time dealing with it all and you know that's not what your friend would want you to go through. [/QUOTE]