I am about 230lbs and ride a 2005 CRF450R. They do have a ton of power but you can tame it and make it more manageable. For example, you can run a gear higer (i.e. instead of on the gas in 3rd, lug around in 4th) and that will tame it quite a bit. Also, for me it is a confidence builder. On the 450, you can pretty much clear most jumps out there whereas on a 250f at 230lbs you may need a little more technique and carry more speed to do so. It's just nice to know you have more than enough bike when hitting that big jump for the first time. Also, I beleive the longetivity of the 450 is better than the 250. I rarely ring my 450 out whereas when I have ridden a 250f I am winding it out much more than my 450. When I am tired on the 450, I pull off. That is the one drawback in my opinion...on blip at the wrong time and you can get into some pretty good trouble. Good luck.