Not all dirt bikes need to be rebuilt often . If you had an XR, KDX,TTR,DR, etc.. type of bike that was well maintained and ridden comfortably on easy trail rides, they can last an extremely long time. Now if you have a race bike or are racing a bike where most of the priority is getting as much of the power to the ground with as little wieght as possible well things are just going to wear out and start getting sloppy sooner.
It really doesnt matter if it is a bike, a quad , car, truck, or even a lawn mower if you are constantly stretching the throttle to its limits looking for more , going over the roughest terrain you can find or have the nerve to try and then add mud water and or sand it isnt going to stay new long.
Motocross bikes are built to win races and are extremely durable if you consider that top fuel dragsters get rebuilt every 5 seconds of intended use.