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Message: [QUOTE="jmics19067, post: 645350, member: 27963"] I am sorry to hear that you have to go thru this. "Hell hath no fury as a woman scorned" and in her twisted view of things she is being evil because she feels it is wrong of you to leave her because she was no longer happy with you. After all it is your fault she wasn't happy and she had to go out an have an affair. :silly: I am sorry for the sarcasm, it is probably something you don't need right now , but I just can't stand the way some women think like this. The bitterness I feel towards this attitude of people like that is of empathy for you. Racing in the amature level for children is no more dangerous than playing football, hockey or even baseball if you ask me. Heck a kid can go out in the back yard, climb tree, and get hurt. Was it ok for you and your son to go racing so she can have time to sneak off but now that she doesn't have an alternative motive it,s not ok? I would try to prove that racing is not anymore dangerous than just being a child growing up in other sports. I would also try to prove that racing was ok when she was your wife, but now it is only a spiteful thing to hurt you since you and your child enjoy it. Without your child around ask her if she really wants to take the fun out of your sons life. Ask her what is she going to say to your son when he asks "how come daddy doesn't take me racing"? talk to a lawyer about what of these personal things you should bring up in front of a judge. It might be useful for a judge to understand these things or not. Those would be thethings I think I would be thinking about if in your situation if I didnt get too bitter. And try not to be bitter towards your future exwife in front of your child and try and make your wife to see the same thing. Your child is going to be unfortunately a bargaining chip, try to be a voice of reason in these tough times , that your sons are going thru a rough time also with this and that you dont want them to think that one parent is better than the other and that they are the most important thing in the world to the both of you<I am surethey are but you will need to reinforce that to them and possibley your wife> My best wishes for all of you I really do hope an amicable agreement is reached for your children's sake [/QUOTE]

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