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[QUOTE="CR_Dave, post: 645365, member: 17533"]
jmics,  you make some great points that I am always thinking about.  I have learned a lot through this.  The most major is that nothing should change in front of the kids, I make sure that I am respectful of their mother.  Saying nasty thing or being bitter in front of kids is a bad burden on the children.  People need to remember that children see themselves as a product of their parents.  If you say something bad about one parent, the child can potentially feel as if there is something wrong with them.

I am acountable for this marriage and have no regrets about it.  Two beautiful children were brought into this would from it.  Something went wrong along the way to cause her to have the affair.  I had hoped that it would have been more recognizable along the way and communication better to avoid this situation that the children are in.  However, I can only deal with the situation at hand.  My focus is and will remain that of the future and well being of our children.
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