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[QUOTE="ThumperBill, post: 648153, member: 45776"]
Dave I may be late, but here goes anyway,

Let me give you a piece of advice here.  Unfortunately I have A LOT of experience in this area.  I have two kids from two different mothers.  I know, I know, I've got a couple screws loose, you have no idea, but you do have to admit I have more experience then you.

You are doing right by not fighting with her in front of the kids.  It hurts the kids more then either one of you. DON'T FORGET THAT.  And don't forget who is important here...  the kids.

Next.  Stop fighting about the bikes.  Right now.  Today.  You've drawn a line in the sand over the top of the motorcycles.  The motorcycles and the kids are gonna lose.  Just let it go.  Fight about something else you don't care so much about.

Next.  You keep riding and don't sell the kids bikes just yet.  Understand that you will get visitation rights with your kids.  If you stay the course of reason, love and tolerance, it will all come back to you.  I promiss.

Unfortunately the kids know that mom is whacked right now, and it scares them. They might even believe SOME of the crap she is undoubtedly saying about you.  They want to believe their Mom and Dad because they are little and they love you both.  YOU must be the Parent they need right now.  Even though they are little, they see through most of the bull.  It may take a year or two, but you'll be riding with them again one day.
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