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Message: [QUOTE="nephron, post: 648478, member: 23759"] Look---there's no way a judge will allow this: [list=a] [*]She allowed it before the divorce. Therefore, she will have no ethical reason/right to deny him now--other than trying to hit where it counts. [*]Be patient--the judge will probably sense her bitter attempt and deny it. [*]Try to give it time--be careful not to strike bak at her with similar, undesirable behavior. She may actually come to her senses with time. [*]She has wronged YOU here--I would guess that will help @ least some. I am not, however, a lawyer--nor have I gone through a divorce. [*]Try to keep your anger under wraps--anger never helps in these situations. THIS is something I know about, as I'm in a bitter fight with the hospital right now. [*]I don't think legally she can prohibit any certain kind of thing you do together when you're together. It's usually when you've done something seriously wrong like using IV drugs in front of them, or driven drunk with them--only then could she impose directly observed time with your child. [/list=a] Man, I feel for you--looks like a great kid. Make sure and let us know how this is working out for you. Best wishes. You'll be fine.[/list] [/QUOTE]