Congratulations to both you and Steff, Kav.
From everything that you have said, I know that Steff loves you and you her.
Marriage is the most powerful commitment that we humans can make.
I want to offer you the following recipe for a marriage. I know there are others and my ingredients change fairly often as I learn more about commitments myself.
1 cup of understanding
1/2 cup of compassion
1/2 cup of hesitation
2 cups of strength
2 cups of reverence
1 cup of humility
1 1/2 cup of support
1/2 cup of freedom
Mix the above and fold in the following two ingredients daily
2 cups of honey I love you
1 cup of sweetheart what can I do for you
Mix all ingredients thoroughly and bake for as many years as needed. Add a few children along the way to the mix as spice, but always keep a close watch on the original cake.
When needed sprinkle with sugar to further sweeten the cake.
Along the way, eat the cake often and it will never run out.
Steff and Kav, my best to you both and I am looking forward to November.