The web suspension is a good thing to allow air to circulate. As mentioned, the Moose has this feature, as well as the entire line of HRP CP's. I'm not sure about the other companies, but HRP does honor their warranty. I crash tested a 4 yr old HRP CP and ripped the webbing loose, and HRP fixed it no charge. (At least I think they fix it for everyone; my son is sponsored by HRP so maybe I got preferred treatment, but I don't think so.)
As to rubbing on your helmet... Depends on the geometry of your neck, whether your helmet comes down too far on your head, adjustment of CP, etc. Besides, you shouldn't be looking back unless you're waiting for slow guys to catch up.... Yeah, "waiting for slow guys", that's it. ;)