I have heard offset clamps are terrible on Hondas, and do that. Here is where we can go from here, although this is going to be difficult since you both are so different in weight, but what sag are you running in the rear? It should be around 100mm, so I guess try to find a medium between you and him, maybe 95mm for him and 105mm for you kind of thing. Then, where do you have the forks set. I think stock is the little line is at the edge of the top of the triple clamp. That is where I have mine. Last question, is it pushing, or diving. I am wondering if your front tire is pushing out, and it makes you feel like it is diving. Explain the diving I guess. I am guessing you are one of my customers? :cool: Sound familiar on weight and stuff that you explained... Good luck, let us know But I say dump the triples and go with stock...