Is there a traction problem?
'Fer instance, I won't get any air on my bike......when on gravel.
An obvious issue, but I don't see any reference to wheel spin. If your not lofting the front and your wheel is spitting gravel/dirt/rocks like crazy, then the issue is traction.
Not likely at 205#, but if your shock sag is 2" and the compression clickers are misadjusted, wheel spin is probably exactly what you'll get.
The bike is warmed up? It's not still a 4-stroking cold-choked goober, is it?
Not a lot of front wheel loft going on there.
Yeah....silly questions, but something is so OBviously wrong that it's maybe so obvious that it's been overlooked.