Hey wizard, ease up a bit. Kawie was just trying to be helpful, not nail you for you your lack of typing/english skills. It was kinda hard to understand exactly what you were saying. Plus, there are some people who would have given you a little razing for the mistakes and then really jumped on you when you took offense to it. You need to get a little thicker skin if you're gonna hang out here. Everyone here is pretty cool, but sometimes the harassment, while joking, can get a little rough. As for the forks, try cranking up your compression(check your manual if unsure), but you may need to get new springs. It'd help us out if we knew how big you are(or aren't) and more info on the bike(year, any mods, etc.) Finally, just let everything roll off of you a little easier(unless what you said was really bad, then let it sink in before going off).