What can I do?

[Matt_H]

Well as some of you know last year the week before Christmas my parents got separted. Dad moved to the city and all kids(Me, little bro, and sis) stayed home on the farm. In spring things got bad my bro not being able to handle my mom got social services involved leading to him moving in foster care. All summer I wanted to go and live with my dad but didn't want to leave the farm(cause mom said i was the last step I leave she would sell the farm and move leaving me and dad broke and bro in foster care. Your probally asking well why didn't my dad get him out of foster care well to sum things up my mom said that he hit her and well know hes got a record. The thing is the night she said this happened I was with my dad biking but the cops didn't believe me or my dad so my mom got her way. Well lots of stuff happened but I'm suming it up so i'll move on to what i'm getting at....................Well this fall my dad moved back kick my mom out sis went with.........Well on day we missed the bus to go to school and my dad was working so I told my bro well we'll drive to school well seeing how we where running behind I thought that by the time the farm beater was warm we would be late so we took the good truck(we keep it in the shop) so I went got it we went to school. Coming home we see our mother come running out of the house after she calls us losers we come inside to see some little stuff moved the cameras gone(camcoreder, polide and digital) and 200$ that was on the fridge for whatever gone. Dad comes home phones cops they say and let me quote this "bull**** we talked to your ex-wife she says your a lair. And over the past couple weeks me and my dad have been pulled over a total of 13 times in 4 weeks why? cause they were told that we're trouble.

Do any of you guys have any ideas on how to open up there f*** heads this is freakin retarted cause of all this stuff we were forced to up cameras in the house yard and shop. And to top everything off we live in a small town were everybody thinks they know everything(well almost everyone).

But I fell that if I don't do anything soon to blow off some steam I'm goin to go nuts.

And I'm sorry if this post makes no sense or offeneds some people I couldn't sleep and am mad over some events.


Matt

 

[yardpro]

this is going to sound callous, but it is sound advise. find a way to get through this and move on with your life. don't get bogged down and dwell on the problem's you're having right now. set a goal for your life and start laying the foundation that will allow you to achieve that goal. that will help take your mind off your current problems. everyone has adversity in thier life ( though maby not as much as you are going through currently). what differentiates successful people from unsuccessful ones is how they deal with the problems. stay positive and work on improving your life. things like education, staying out of trouble, etc. will help your future more that you can currently preceive.
good luck and I hope things improve.

 

[BSWIFT]

Sorry to hear this, Yardpro is right though. Parents try to use their kids against one another in a power game and its sad. The kids have to try not to pick sides. Live life with a smile. If you and your dad get pulled over again, be nice, tell the police after thier questions are done, to have a nice day. Your cooperation and politeness will likely end the harrassment.
As for the troubles between your folks, do your best to remain neutral and don't loose touch with your brother. Give him some support, sounds like he needs a friend. Good luck, hang in there.:(