ryanoa,
Welcome to the site... hope you find as much useful info as I have. Now on to your problem. If I am picturing correctly what your problem is, JB weld should help. If not, as stated above, you can purchase an aftermarket one or call up some of the salvage places (look at ad's in the bike of dirt oriented cycle publications or search the web).
Now for your other question, I think the seal between the water pump and case would need to be replaced. This seems to be common on that era KX. Get a manual for you bike if you don't already own one and it should not be a difficult task. For my buddies bike, it took us about 1.5 hours and 12 pack, but we really didn't get in a big hurry. ;) That was about 7 or 8 years ago, but I don't remember any real problems with replacing the seal.
Good luck.