Ok ladies, I've got another one of those girlfriend questions that I'm sure you'll all hate me for asking. But I really would appreciate it if maybe you could help me out. Ok here goes....
Let me preface by saying that I have the most amazing girlfriend ever. She likes going to the races, and seems to enjoy watching me race around on my scoot. In fact, she was actually willing to get up at 6 am on the Sunday after senior prom and drive several hours to go race that day. Luckily (for both of us actually, I was relieved in the end) the race was rained out. She also is usually not very timid. Her grandmother has some land behind her house that they used to tear up on go-karts (like riding faster than her male cousins and friends). Anyhow, I've been gently encouraging her to get on and ride off and on since the beginning. I honestly don't think that I push, or at least I try my absolute hardest not to. My brother and sister share a TTR-125 and we have a PW80. On the first camping trip she joined my family on she mostly stuck to riding the PW80, but since it is so small it was somewhat boring. The last day of the trip she tried the TTR. With 5 minutes of basic instruction, she took off on the FIRST TRY without stalling. In my mind I was like :aj: . I honestly don't think she realizes how impressive that is in itself. It took me a long time (like about a year) to consistently take off without stalling and she did it immediately.
However, every other time we've ridden she seems to be scared to death of the thing. As far as I can remember she has not even fallen over yet. We have ridden on peewee tracks, which seem to be fine, but once we get on any kind of trails (we're talking 1 to 2 fourwheeler wide) she tenses up.
Basically, what I'm asking for is some advice. Should I leave it alone? Gently encourage? I already found out that the tough love thing my dad used on me doesn't work with her... boy I'll never make that mistake again... I was in the dog house for a while. Can any of you maybe share some personal exeriences that would encourage her?
Let me preface by saying that I have the most amazing girlfriend ever. She likes going to the races, and seems to enjoy watching me race around on my scoot. In fact, she was actually willing to get up at 6 am on the Sunday after senior prom and drive several hours to go race that day. Luckily (for both of us actually, I was relieved in the end) the race was rained out. She also is usually not very timid. Her grandmother has some land behind her house that they used to tear up on go-karts (like riding faster than her male cousins and friends). Anyhow, I've been gently encouraging her to get on and ride off and on since the beginning. I honestly don't think that I push, or at least I try my absolute hardest not to. My brother and sister share a TTR-125 and we have a PW80. On the first camping trip she joined my family on she mostly stuck to riding the PW80, but since it is so small it was somewhat boring. The last day of the trip she tried the TTR. With 5 minutes of basic instruction, she took off on the FIRST TRY without stalling. In my mind I was like :aj: . I honestly don't think she realizes how impressive that is in itself. It took me a long time (like about a year) to consistently take off without stalling and she did it immediately.
However, every other time we've ridden she seems to be scared to death of the thing. As far as I can remember she has not even fallen over yet. We have ridden on peewee tracks, which seem to be fine, but once we get on any kind of trails (we're talking 1 to 2 fourwheeler wide) she tenses up.
Basically, what I'm asking for is some advice. Should I leave it alone? Gently encourage? I already found out that the tough love thing my dad used on me doesn't work with her... boy I'll never make that mistake again... I was in the dog house for a while. Can any of you maybe share some personal exeriences that would encourage her?