Originally posted by gospeedracer
Okay, you guys want some honest fem insight? some women have this ‘disease’, “igottahavewhatsnotmineous” where the 'unobtainable' becomes very desirable. If you know you can't have it, it just makes the 'challenge' all the more intriguing...not saying ALL women...only a small percentage, but time and time again...I wanted what she had. I don’t know what exactly triggers this but it can diminish with age as well as fade if said women have the love of a good man. :)
Well put; tho don't stop there - don't worry: us guys will never have you gals figured out :confused: - perhaps nor will you us, but being the simpletons we are, at least it's not that difficult for ya. :D
I was affected by this screwy "disease" when we first married; every so often my wife would get livid after we came out of stores "you didn't see her coming on to ya!" I honestly didn't,nor did I take pleasure in it (didn't know it was coming - really: I have my own life to live & care little what strangers think/say/do on the spur of the moment - established, credible friends like those I meet thru DRN are tops) but it happened (the lectures) enough to where I honestly tried to stay outta sight, having as little to do w/store-counter gals as possible. (There's really no grounds for it as she's an 8; now why have hamburger when standard fare is filet mignon?) And I don't consider myself much of a looker, nor did this have any affect on my business dealings on my own; if it did go on, then I was oblivious to it.
It's what GSR said, & another twist (or mindset), in that: "if I can't be happy (with a guy, like you), then by golly, I'll make sure you're not!"
Spanky: is this gal (miserably) married/in a relationship or has difficulty making them last?
Now hows it doing? Your wife gonna dump her? This is why my wife has few friends; says she just can't trust them, & I believe her - seems a few close ones were gone once they mentioned me in their conversations with her - I guess it's that "committed, faithful, supporting husband" image (?) they want to experience/have for themselves. Thing is, when these predators finally get what they pursue, it's never quite what they imagined...
Glad you passed the test so far, that youre a real man, one of integrity. Would there were more (I suspect, in the majority) that make up this county.