Thanks for all of your help. I really appreciate it! I was able to finally fix my forks. My husband and I just rigged up a system in which we put two nuts together on top of the locknut on the dampner rod. We locked the two nuts together and used them to enable us to get the locknut loose. Once that was taken care of, the rest was cake, well minus trying to get the oil level right without the correct tool (hey straws and a ruler work good for this, it's just time consuming...). After this, I'm not sure why people freak out about servicing their own forks. It was cake and we didn't even have the "special" tools to do the job.