A little side-to-side play is O.K., like Willy said, it's the up-and-down play you don't want. When that happens, it's often the big-end bearing (on bottom of the rod) that needs replaced. If that's the case, the crank halves would need to be separated. I don't know too many people who have the tools to do this themselves. The cost of having it done - with a new rod - is probably about the same as buying the complete rod/crankshaft from Wiseco (have seen these for $180-190 on eBaay). Installing the complete kit is more doable for the mechanically inclined.