what is even more sad about spoiled 16 yr olds is that they often grow up and still expect their parents to do for them. my mom is in her mid 50s and she told me the other day how proud she was that me and my sisters got out of the house by 19 and never asked to come back. she says most of her coworkers that are her age have kids that expect 24/7 free baby sitting, money, homes, jobs and everything else. this is crazy!!! my parents provided what i needed.........maybe not what i wanted and i treat my kids the same way. sometimes im not popular with them when they look at what their friends have but i know its for their own good.