what you could do is just back your clickers out almost all the way. Thatll work, if you aren't gonna race it. If you are going to, you should go with a different spring rate in your forks and shock. A revalve isn't necessary. Just play with the clickers for now, and look around on the internet for suggestions. btw, turning the clickers clockwise will make it stiffer, counterclckwse softer. When youre adjusting the clickers, turn them all the way in before trying a new setting for the first time. Look in your manual for help. Your dad is dumb for telling you that suspension is only for jumping. But no, it won't really MAKE you fall in a turn. Thats on you.