You are having an on-going open house for folks in your community and a new kid in the community stops by. He hangs out a while to visit with you and your other guests. After enjoying himself for an hour or so he leaves.
A few days later he returns. Again, he visits for a while, mingles with your guests, and strikes up a few conversations. He’s starting to like your place and frequents a little more each week. You see, he’s been to the “other” parties where folks don’t treat each other right and decides he likes your place better.
Time passes, now he’s visiting daily and starting to feel comfortable. You’re happy that he’s found a place he can enjoy. He’s happy because the place is always neat and organized, people generally get along and when someone does cause a disturbance it’s taken care of quickly, keeping everyone happy.
It’s a real cool place. You only have a few rules and he never has to clean up after himself or anyone else. He’s found he shares a common interest with nearly everyone at your place and he can go in nearly every room in your house where groups of like-minded people gather. And the best part: IT’S FREE!
What more can you ask for?
Well time marches on and his enjoyment continues. He really feels like a part of your place now because he has spent so much time here. He knows you’re easy going and even your close friends that look after your place are cool folks. Just follow the rules and show respect for your house is all you ask.
One day he decides to curse in front your guests, or bring up off color topics, or maybe make suggestions for changes to your house. You or one of your close friends quickly straightens him out. Then it happens, the question: WHY?
Like he didn’t know he was in the wrong. He asks again: Why? A few of your guest try to steer him in the right direction…..but that’s not good enough. So he demands a public answer: Why? You see he feels he has been wronged and isn’t smart enough to go in private for resolution, no. Why? he insists.
Enough of this sugar coated B.S.………..BECAUSE IT’S HIS HOUSE AND IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT LEAVE!
I’ve witnessed more whining and complaining from disrespectful little kids in the forums lately than I care to think about. When will they learn? Let ‘em go to the free-for-all sites and enjoy themselves. Or let ‘em go pee on their mommy’s floor and ask, “WHY can’t I do that?” Because it's her house!
Show some #$@%&*^ respect! Or leave.
If you think I’m referring to you while reading this, then I probably am!
A few days later he returns. Again, he visits for a while, mingles with your guests, and strikes up a few conversations. He’s starting to like your place and frequents a little more each week. You see, he’s been to the “other” parties where folks don’t treat each other right and decides he likes your place better.
Time passes, now he’s visiting daily and starting to feel comfortable. You’re happy that he’s found a place he can enjoy. He’s happy because the place is always neat and organized, people generally get along and when someone does cause a disturbance it’s taken care of quickly, keeping everyone happy.
It’s a real cool place. You only have a few rules and he never has to clean up after himself or anyone else. He’s found he shares a common interest with nearly everyone at your place and he can go in nearly every room in your house where groups of like-minded people gather. And the best part: IT’S FREE!
What more can you ask for?
Well time marches on and his enjoyment continues. He really feels like a part of your place now because he has spent so much time here. He knows you’re easy going and even your close friends that look after your place are cool folks. Just follow the rules and show respect for your house is all you ask.
One day he decides to curse in front your guests, or bring up off color topics, or maybe make suggestions for changes to your house. You or one of your close friends quickly straightens him out. Then it happens, the question: WHY?
Like he didn’t know he was in the wrong. He asks again: Why? A few of your guest try to steer him in the right direction…..but that’s not good enough. So he demands a public answer: Why? You see he feels he has been wronged and isn’t smart enough to go in private for resolution, no. Why? he insists.
Enough of this sugar coated B.S.………..BECAUSE IT’S HIS HOUSE AND IF YOU DON’T LIKE IT LEAVE!
I’ve witnessed more whining and complaining from disrespectful little kids in the forums lately than I care to think about. When will they learn? Let ‘em go to the free-for-all sites and enjoy themselves. Or let ‘em go pee on their mommy’s floor and ask, “WHY can’t I do that?” Because it's her house!
Show some #$@%&*^ respect! Or leave.
If you think I’m referring to you while reading this, then I probably am!
