Ah yes, the feast or famine days. :eek:Originally posted by BunduBasher
What is worse, being in the club, or out of it?
What is worse, being in the club, or out of it !
This is part of it, I’m sure. He has always been commitment-phobic and I was shocked when he invited me to move in. I made double sure HE wanted this—we discussed it for 2 months.The defense is put up because his way of life is being threatened, and he fears change or fears his buddies making fun of him for being home doing chores while their out playing(whipped comes to mind).
that's the problem... we don't want to iron....laundry is womens work. ;)We just need to iron out a few wrinkles.
Originally posted by firecracker22
He has always been commitment-phobic and I was shocked when he invited me to move in.
FC22,Originally posted by firecracker22
Part of it is that I feel a little left out—he doesn’t involve me much at all with his friends, interests, etc. I don’t want to be there all the time but at least once in a while I’d like an invite.
Originally posted by TTRGuy
I should probably add that Aimee makes it very easy for me to treat her well. She rarely if ever actually asks for anything, I can't think of anything about me that she has ever tried to change and she treats me with respect and kindness too. We both give each other a lot of space, trust and our own time to do things. If only 1 person in a relationship acted this way it would be very difficult. It is most definitely a two way street.
Originally posted by TTRGuy
I should probably add that Aimee makes it very easy for me to treat her well. She rarely if ever actually asks for anything, I can't think of anything about me that she has ever tried to change and she treats me with respect and kindness too. We both give each other a lot of space, trust and our own time to do things. If only 1 person in a relationship acted this way it would be very difficult. It is most definitely a two way street.
The Dream girl said
I'll be busting out the saran wrap, whipped cream and a CASE of beer after THAT!!!
Hey, this is a family site......................my family's not here, tell us more! :)Originally posted by gospeedracer
Ohhh, I'll be busting out the saran wrap, whipped cream and a CASE of beer after THAT!!! :) :) :)
Originally posted by TTRGuy
she treats me with respect and kindness too It is most definitely a two way street.
:DOriginally posted by Ol'89r
After 37 years we still hold hands when we go somewhere together and I could not imagine life without her.